Wednesday, 26 November 2014

An Open Letter To My Fellow White People About Your Reactions To The Ferguson Protests

Disclaimer: I am white.  I grew up in a semi-affluent suburb in Southern California.  I am not black, have never been black, and make no secret of my not-black status.  I am also not speaking for all white people, just me.
Dear Fellow White People,
Please shut up.
Last night, violent protests broke out in Ferguson, MO after the announcement that a grand jury would not be indicting Darren Wilson for the murder of Michael Brown.  Since last night, a good number of you have been acting like complete and total morons on Facebook and Twitter.  Even more than you have been lately, since the news of Brown’s murder became national news.  But it’s been throttled up to 11 since the announcement and I have hit a breaking point with you all, and it’s time we have a little bit of a chat.
In the last 24 hours, I have been subjected to an assault of judgement and un-asked-for legal assessments of the case.  I have heard my white friends insist this isn’t about race, make hypothetical conjecture about what if Brown was white, and I have heard you all judging the protesters for “burning their own community.”  I have heard you all calling Brown a “thug”, which is the en vogue term white people use when they mean the n-word (lets cut the bull on that one, white people, shall we?).  I have heard white people insisting they know what true oppression is like and that race doesn’t matter in America.
Again, please shut up.
The myth that “everyone is entitled to their opinion”, is complete crap.  Sometimes you don’t get an opinion.  Especially if it’s something you’re grossly unqualified to comment on.  If everyone’s opinion had to be listened to, then NASA would have to take advice on how best to launch their rockets from Chad in Des Moines who delivers pizza.  Chad has no idea what he’s talking about when it comes to rocket science, just like white people have no idea what being black is like.  There is not a white person on Earth who is properly qualified to have an opinion on the Black Experience in America.  Why? You’re not black and have zero clue what the heck you’re talking about.  No matter how many Public Enemy albums you bought on iTunes.
Black people are angry.  They’ve been dealing with some stuff, and a lot of that has to do with the police. You don’t know how the police treat black people, because you’re not black.  You don’t know what it looks like or feels like to be in that position because you are not and never will be in that position.  No matter how many cops you know or have spoken to, you simply have no idea what it’s like to be black and dealing with the police.  They know what it’s like, not you.
We, as white people, do not get to tell black people — or any other minority — how to feel or what level of racism there is or is not in this country.  They experience it, not us.  Just because you have a hypothesis about losing a job over Affirmative Action does not make you an encyclopedia of oppression.  No matter where you grew up, who your friends are, what you’ve been through — You. Are. Not. Black.  You don’t get to tell black people what to think, how to express their thoughts, and when or when to not be offended.
When an entire community is angry enough to set itself on fire, the response does not need to be “You’re doing it wrong.”  The response needs to be “Wow! You’re set stuff on fire levels of angry? You have our attention.” And that response needs to be genuine.  Stop spouting what you think you know based on some anecdotes.  Black people are the experts on being black and it behooves you to listen to them — because you are clueless.  What with your not being black and all.
I know nothing about what black people go through, because I’m not black. All I know is they’re trying to tell me and I can’t hear over the cacophony of white people talking about something they know nothing about.
Please shut up.  I’m trying to listen.
Michael Peckerar
Content Associate for RantLifestyle.com

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